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I dont think that anything brings people together more than mutual hatred, except mutual hatred for each other. I suppose that is why my ex-boyfriends and I still talk to each other, or, I should say, one of my ex-boyfriends, Rob. The other one, Andrew, and I dont talk at all. I suppose that means we must really hate each other. But the reason we dont talk is that it still hurts, and that wound runs very deep, I doubt if it will ever heal. The blues is losing someone you love and not having enough money to immerse yourself in drink. And so when I had lost Andrew, Cupid move Rob along, and he paid for the tab. In short, I am convinced that Andrew is heartless and devoid of having any conviction or remorse for his wickedness. And as for Rob, I am honored to be able to say that, yes, he is my friend, and one of the most amazing people I have ever met. Rob was a Marine. Andrew was in the Army. Their temperaments were just as opposite as the branches of the military they served. Rob was an introverted kind of guy, completely content to sit and read a refreshing or sit quietly in a theatre. He wasnt the kind of guy that liked to be the center of attention or begin the spotlight to himself. Andrew, on the other hand, was the most extraverted person I have ever seen. He was the life of the party, always out and about socializing, and love all the attention than anyone would be willing to give him. Andrew was aggressive, Rob was passive. Even though they were different, they were a lot alike. Which is why, I suppose, I was attracted to both of them. They both had inviolate leadership skills and the ability to always make me smile when I was sad, console me when I cried, and amuse me with their humor when I needed to be 03cheered. On my nineteenth birthday, Andrew called at 1200AM to sing happy birthday to me in a Frank Sinatra style, and Rob telephoned to leave The Beatles so they say its your birthday at 207AM on my voice mail. They each had their differences, but even their similarities had their own flavor. Physically, I would have to say that both Rob and Andrew were enough to put brad Pitt and Johnny Depp out of business.